One of the cinema in my city have SNEAK PREVIEW program every Wednesday, which means you pay the ticket without knowing what film you are about to watch. (100% with you on the singleton misery though. It's summer now, which makes it easier. Bad casting since Hammer was way too old for the role. At first sight, to some, this is quite a questionable circumstance, one that makes many even feel guilty about supporting the film. But during the restless summer weeks that follow, unrelenting buried currents of obsession and fear, f Now imagine the story was about a heterosexual couple. Of course maybe I am just being over critical. Call Me by Your Name is a fairly straightforward coming-of-age story that’s at its finest in moments when the relationships—between Elio and Oliver, but just as crucially between Elio and his archeologist father—take on larger meanings than their literal context implies, and Guadagnino finds evocative aesthetic expressions for them. I'm sure many of you can relate. When I get really busy with life, Iâm not as focused on it. Meanwhile Chalamet (though really 22) is a very young looking 17. I can't speak to the book, but I don't believe Oliver's age is ever expressly given in the film. Agonizing at first, aching from time to time and never goes away :). I only watched it two weeks ago. It's legal there so it's fine as long as all parties consent. 20th December 2017. Part of it is that he makes Chalamet look tiny. The Oscar-nominated film "Call Me by Your Name" is a coming-of-age story about a 17-year-old named Elio and his brief romance with a 24-year-old … Woah! On the one hand, critics of the age gap want to come down hard on any blurring of lines in … by Lisa Johnson Mandell. Unprepared for the consequences of their attraction, at first each feigns indifference. Stop your chores. Thank God I found this sanctuary of like minded people. I keep listening to the soundtrack, I keep remembering scenes and rewatching them, I watch the interviews, anything and everything that has to do with them. It's still in theatre, so maybe after January, February, March, April, May, and June I manage to see it in July as well. Your reaction is painfully familiar. I canât speak for everyone else, but I do think itâs a little bit creepy when thereâs an age gap like that, and one of them is only 17. What a wonderful story, it gave me chills! There has been plenty of films throughout cinematic history that have been released that have had similar or larger age gaps and are revered as classics. August viewing in London. When I first saw the movie I was in a cloud for weeks- feeling as if I was transported to a different part of my life. This is a coming-of-age film, but one that achieves an unusual emotional immediacy. Based on the acclaimed novel by André Aciman, the movie takes place in 1983 northern Italy where Elio Perlman (Timothée Chalamet) and his family spend their summers. It is just like a brutal break up before Christmas and it put me in a terrible mood even after New Year was over. The novel “Call Me by Your Name” is set in 1987, but the film switches that date to 1983 — the year the French filmmaker Maurice Pialat released this challenging drama. Exactly, and it was jarring on the big screen. “Find Me” has everything you loved – and everything that made you cringe – about “Call Me by Your Name." Now imagine the story was about a heterosexual couple. "Woods deserved his public censure, but the shift in focus to his alleged behavior effectively sidestepped any of the understandable squeamishness that surrounds the film. Well now your comment just falls under the logical fallacy of false equivalency. Then I read the book again (in full or parts). I read the book 8-9 years ago, and still it didn't wrecked me any less than it wrecked my friends who never read it. which broke my heart even more. I haven't gotten over it. WE ARE ALL SINGLETONS. It really goes in cycles, too. My issues with the age gap are two-fold. I wonder what your final total will be... Wow, I wish I saw it earlier in theaters, they only screen it at very late hours here, I can't stay out that late unfortunately. I think there are a lot of reasons it has such a strong effect of some people. It's a bit embarrassing. It's exhausting that this is still an ongoing discussion. Whoa, how is it even possible since the film was released only in 2017? Here are 10 fascinating facts about Call Me By Your Name, which is up for four Oscars this year, including Best Picture. I had a period a couple of weeks ago when my infatuation waned....but I still thought about it every damn day. I think that is the same reason I didn't fall in love with Ladybird. This was exactly two weeks ago, and not a single day has passed since then without thinking about the story. ;). Put away the distractions, and dive into the things that matter. Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts. Like we are there with them in the villa, around the table, at the bar. I don't think there's anything pedophilic about it, but there's something sorta off-setting in how Hammer slowly escalates the relationship to being more sexual after a while. It's a shame some people won't give this film a chance because of it. Since its release in 2017, Luca Guadagnino’s Call Me by Your Name has garnered mass critical acclaim, as much for the LGBT representation it presents by centring around a gay relationship as it did for cinematic impact. The R rating is for sexual content, nudity and some language.Latest news about Call Me By Your Name, starring Armie Hammer, Timothée Chalamet, Michael Stuhlbarg and directed by Luca Guadagnino. I had seen 3 Billboards a few days before, and well after that mother fucking movie everything is going to pale in comparison for the next few monrhs. I donât ever want to get over this movie. New comments cannot be posted and votes cannot be cast, News & Discussion about Major Motion Pictures, Press J to jump to the feed. None of us were prepared to watch CMBYN that night. "Beautiful and sweet" fails to describe something as unethical as an age difference like that. However, that’s just one study; others, like a 2008 analysis of data from England and Wales, show there is not a significant association between age gap and marriage dissolution. Following news that a sequel has been confirmed, Cal McGhee takes another look back at the 2017 film, detailing ten things in Call Me by Your Name … (It's not in my home town or anywhere near even, so it's not a certainty I will, but I'd like to). While Elio is well-versed in literature and music, he is still a 17-year-old boy. It was almost impossible to explain but one other thing I unearthed for myself was that it's the first film in a very long time that made me want to think and feel and learn. Lurking in the margin,s though, was a story that offered me no immediate assistance entitled “Call Me by Your Name”… it always seemed to be there, like a … Not with CMBYN tho. Hammer is 31 and could pass for older. I realized sometime in late November/early December that there was something special there, ordered soundtrack, book and audio book in mid-January (so that I could immerse myself into them after seeing the movie), saw the movie in late January, and then the next 4 days as well, including one with Q+A. Time will slowly heal our wounds, but the scar left behind that reminds us of the painful beauty this movie is will always be there. One: given the comparative appearances of both Hammer and Chalamet, the gap seems larger than it should. It will also be released in a moment of heightened scrutiny around sexual abuse in Hollywood, including the revelations about Kevin Spacey, which, thanks in part to his joint apology/coming-out statement, seemed to renew old and damaging associations of gayness with molestation. I have never been through a break up, nor did I experience the magic of first love, I can only assume it feels something like this. The age gap made me uncomfortable, especially given how Timothee Chalamet's behavior and clothing make him seem even younger. But as the article says, fair or not, it will inevitably raise questions because of what's going on in Hollywood. Cancel your plans. IT GOT THE LONGEST STANDING OVATION IN NEW YORK FILM FESTIVAL HISTORY. Same here. And I'm back to where I was with it before that. And while Call Me By Your Name was beautiful on the screen, I’m not sure I believe it was more than that. CALL ME BY YOUR NAME Review. But come the Autumn equinox in September, I know this film will come back to haunt me and I will go back to my sad song playlist all over again. Iâll have the house to myself and think of nothing to do but watch the film again. Seth Rogen and Amber Heard in Pineapple Express dawg. I sincerely doubt any of the people who make this argument have read the book or seen the movie. Also, have you seen the movie? A coming-of-age story, a coming-out story, a Proustian meditation on time and desire, a love letter, an invocation and something of an epitaph, “Call Me by Your Name” is also an open question. Of course - the heartbreaking love affair between Elio and Oliver brought back the nostalgia for loves lost. That's amazing! One: given the comparative appearances of both Hammer and Chalamet, the gap seems larger than it should. Incredible what a movie can do to you. I assume most of you watched it way before I did. I remember everything. It basically reawakened a love of film and literature that I had allowed to become dormant. But the Timothee obsession is a real thing!!!! Set in the Italian countryside in 1983, Call Me By Your Name is the beautifully crafted coming-of-age story of Elio (Timothee Chalamet), the 17-year-old son of … “Call Me by Your Name” isn’t about an older man and a younger man. All of us bawling our eyes out when the film ended, and one of my friends turned to me and said "I have no one." Something was just a little off. My issues with the age gap are two-fold. I have heard about the movie before, was planning to watch it for a long time, but I knew it was going to be good, so I was looking for the "perfect time" to watch. Not for me!! Amidst all the rapturous kudos and awards nominations poured out upon the popular indie film Call Me By Your Name, including eight nominations for Critics Choice Awards from my own group, the Broadcast Film Critics Association (BFCA), doesn’t it bother anyone that it’s a film about an adult having an affair with a minor? Elio is 17-years-old and Oliver is 24-years-old. (And I'm not young, so theoretically I might have gone bonkers over a movie decades ago, just never did.) What a wonderful story, experiencing the movie by surprise! My friends don't understand though (they haven't seen it either), which is why I'm here. Read more. Thinking of a trip to Northern Italy, possibly straight from London. Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts. Also, I love Germany at Christmastime and this story is making me nostalgic in a strange way. Now if I could only figure out how to explain the ridiculous school girl crush I have on Timothee Chalamet. As a gay guy who remembers being 17 and falling for guys in their mid twenties that didn't shock or offend me. Make nothing of it. Otherwise, I am here or on tumblr every day looking for content. In actual practice, however, CMBYN left a bad taste in my mouth long before I was through watching it. ), and saw it so many times without subs for the French and Italian parts that now I forget to read them when I rewatch the movie! His character should be more like 28, but I don't really care. The problem is the movie wants to look at the relationship so much as a beautiful and sweet thing without looking at the consequences other than heartbreak. I spent the last year on my own in a foreign country, and sometimes I wonder if this movie wouldn't have affected me so profoundly in different circumstances.). Welcome to the club. We thought we were about to watch a new stupid American holiday movie, and suddenly Hallelujah Junction hit me and I was shocked reading Luca Guadagnino, James Ivory, Andre Aciman and Sufjan Steven's names all piled at once on the screen. Call Me by Your Name captures that affliction that all of us should have the chance to suffer: crazed, unreasonable first passion. Woah, okay, they should really put a warning before the movie starts! Weâve been trough this. Unfortunately he has met someone so thatâs out but without this movie I never would have had the courage to do that! Are there many other people watching the movie these days or the room is pretty much empty? I'm not sure I want to get over it either. OCTOBER 29, 2019. But even the brief “age gap” caveats miss the point. That, to me, is essential: Call Me by Your Name is really all about Elio’s experience. This evening I have a spoiler free review of Call Me By Your Name for you. The age gap is just too striking in the actor's appearances. I do agree, watching this movie is similar to going through a break-up. Don't see the movie if you don't like it. It's always film that hasn't been released in Germany, or subbed/dubbed in German. They attempted to make him look young but failed. By Jacob Ogles. No need to imagine. I don't know, but I don't think I even want to, I've enjoyed myself. Many of us can indeed relate - been there, done that... for months. Some of my favorite theatres in the Netherlands did this too but I could never go because I can only do English/English subs. It reminded me that I used to read things more complicated than the latest paperback, watch art films and subtitled foreign films that made me think. This is a serious question. Call Me by Your Name (Italian: Chiamami col tuo nome) is a 2017 coming-of-age romantic drama film directed by Luca Guadagnino. It's like a break up. Photo Credit: Daily Public. Can you give me the resources you used to do that? It has made me feel less crazy to be so crazy about CMBYN. It was 11.00 pm when we got out, the sky was clear but it was terribly cold, and rather than going home, we all went back to the Oldtown to smoke, drink, walk and numb ourselves, because the truth is, it was too hurtful for us to go back to our single apartments separately. I must admit that the film trailer for this book is what made me want to read it, as well as my friend Nicole (@colecordium) loving it. The Call Me By Your Name actor responded to Woods when he dissed the critically acclaimed gay romance movie on Twitter, connecting it to a group who believes pedophilia should be legal. Viscerally familiar. Love Simon. I don't know what's the point of this post lol. I got over the movie, but im still addicted to the timothee and armie lol. It fills in its predecessor's gaps. I saw the movie in March and since then many more times- love the soundtrack- the book wrecked me too. I was in Italy in 1985 - the scenery - the food - the water- the movie just feels so real. Itâs actuall a really beautiful and sweet love story and the two characters treat each other with the uttermost respect. I was trying to explain it to my closest friend on the phone recently as she hasn't seen the film and may or may not watch it. And two: the gap is never addressed in any meaningful way. New comments cannot be posted and votes cannot be cast, More posts from the callmebyyourname community, A place to celebrate and discuss Call Me By Your Name--the novel by Andre Aciman and the film by Luca Guadagnino, Press J to jump to the feed. [/bold] Call Me By Your Name, part 12 R138 My friend works with him. As such, the characters appear to be bridging a much larger gap than the source material likely intended. Yes, the age gap is important in terms of the story, but never in a pedophilic way in any form. Just hope the movie is good. It's not like it'll make much money outside of the coasts, anyway. There's something kind of off in the way that Stuhlbarg seems to have supported like "You know what, it was good you experienced that because it was special" and not necessarily looking after his son's safety. 19 Straight Films That Didn't Mind Call Me by Your Name's Age Gap The story is a bit unusual -- for Hollywood, that is -- in that it happens to be about two men, but that's only a detail in this beautiful film in which every element feels as vivid as the lovers' drive for each other. 24 times in theaters??? which broke my heart even more. I don't mind any of this, so I don't feel like I should get over it. At least I'm not alone, even tho I'm very late to the party! Yeah i learned fluent italian bc of this movie. The ending ripped my heart out. Very few movies left such an impact on me, but after a few days, I always got back to my usual routine. Itâs a different age of consent in Italy, the characters are 17 and 24. The experience became a dual rite of passage. Call Me By Your Name T he notion of sex keeps proving contentious. I did make it through CMBYN with Dutch subs though (thank you college French! Wow, that's great! curated: funny how people object to ‘Call Me by Your Name’s age gap when they let these straight romances slide Thu Mar 01 2018, 11:12am | 0 comments (My review: Call Me by Your Name . For films; the three that stand out for me were: The Geography Club, Alex Strangelove and (the almost obligatory!) The 2017 film follows the gay love affair between 17-year-old Elio (Timothée Chalamet) and 24 Oliver (Hammer), leading many to criticise the film. If he's indeed supposed to be 24, casting Armie Hammer was a mistake. Why is Call Me By Your Name rated R? We shouldnât make a big deal out of it because it isnât. Call Me by Your Name is out in theaters and has a lot of Oscar buzz surrounding it. On paper, it sounds like something great. And two: the gap is never addressed in any meaningful way. They are 17 and 24 years old in the movie, that's fine. Sony Pictures Classics Indeed, the story takes place in Italy in 1983, where the age of consent is 14. This book follows the summer romance of two bisexual Jewish guys in the Italian Riviera and, for the most part, I absolutely loved this book. By virtually all accounts, Call Me By Your Name, a new film directed by Italian director Luca Guadagnino, ... Below is a sampling of how some critics danced around the age gap. Call Me By Your Name review – gorgeous gay love story seduces and overwhelms. I've never seen any other movie that many times in my entire life. Armie Hammer as 24-year-old Oliver in "Call Me By Your Name." I did already! We here at Headstuff were huge fans of Call Me by Your Name and were delighted James Ivory's screenplay won an Oscar. The article OP linked explains it spot on. Call Me by Your Name is the story of a sudden and powerful romance that blossoms between an adolescent boy and a summer guest at his parents' cliff-side mansion on the Italian Riviera. oh no I agree. Call Me By Your Name, part 12[bold] R136 All I know is Armie stayed at Timothee's the entire time and one of Timothee's friends has been telling people that stuff went down. Call Me By Your Name star Armie Hammer has defended the age gap between the movie's two central characters. i and my 3 friends went there after hanging out at Christmas market that evening. Call My by Your Name is, for all its subtlety and specificity, fundamentally about an erotic relationship between a 17-year-old teenager and a 24-year-old man. Then I need to listen to the audiobook again once Iâve watched it. All the events of the story are consensual AND legal, given the context, and that's it. Nothing. The 1980s was when I was the age of the characters- the clothes -the hairstyles. As Slate points out, same-sex age of consent laws have historically been higher due to homophobia, but that doesn't appear to have been the case in Italy. WE ARE ALL SINGLETONS. This has been going on since January 15 for me. I was still enraptured by 3 Billboards. The chemistry just wasn't right between the actors. I don't think I want to get over it.
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